This helps a lot when you are trying to get married. Two incomes, are better than one. One income is better than none! I'm so glad.
It's not very demanding but I wake up at 6 a.m. to get ready, and I'm home by 5:15 p.m. I feel so excited and so blessed. It's a personal assistant job. And it's fantastic! I hope I can work here for about 2 years, or until I finish school.
I am so excited about everything going on in my life. I pray that God continue to bless us and guide our steps so that we don't fall on our faces.
I've been thinking lately about how different everyone's life would be if we just sat down once in a while to read an inspiring book. Imagine the possibilities. Reading not only relaxes you, but it can be quite informing as well.
I've began reading this relationship book called Love & Respect; The Love She Most Desires; The Respect He Desperately Needs [By Emmerson Eggerichs] Wow! What a Great Book!! It really gives you a lot of insight on the things we do without noticing. I enjoy redaing about others who have gone through what I'm going through. Fills me with a sense of hope. You have to remember of course, the Bible is another great book that lifts you. It's just a bit harder for me to read, I just don't know where to start. Gotta work on that...
I really would like to be the absolute best I can at all times. Help people, pray constantly, seek ways to be better. I think that's the way we all should be. Of course there come days when you can't stand being with another human being, and that's when you get on your knees and pray. Once again.
So,.. God is good.. It's the weekend.. Let's enjoy it!
I wonder sometimes how people get married nowadays. There's so much to think and plan before you get married. So many discussions come up out of the blue. Insecurities. Excitement. Counseling. All of it. Some days I honestly think, how do people make it? There are times when I just want to scream and become a nun! Don't get me wrong, I love my S.O. with all of my heart, but we have the most different opinions when it comes to certain things. It was all fun when we were dating, but now that we're about to tie the knot, it all intensifies. We recuperate quickly though, and love eachother even more after the storm; however, it drains me at times. God is so good though. We both pray that He keep changing us to be better spouses. And we've come a long way. Thank God.
It feels so good to know I get to spend the rest of my life by his side. Building our careers together. Raising a family. Working in the Ministry together. I feel like I'm about to embark on the greatest adventure of my life. Somehow I know the feeling is mutual. That makes me feel even better. And these are the things I think about when we argue over shopping at Wal-Mart, Lol.
Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace. -- Ephesians 4:2-3
Ahh! I get so upset when I call someone repeatedly and they won't answer. [I usually only feel this way when it's someone close to me.] This feeling grows even more horribly in me when I know the person is not working. If they are busy, they can simply send a text or a quick call just to say, "Hey, I'm super busy, I'll call you as soon as I get a chance." That would be enough. But no. Zip. Nada. Until they stroll along three hours later like, "What's up?" Ahh!
I'd like to write a handbook called, "How To Please Your Significant Other" I'm sure there are plenty of books like that already, but I want to make it especially for my S.O. Maybe as a present.. is that a bad present? Kind of selfish, but it'd save a lot of heartache in the future.
Okay.. I am better now.. moving on..
I had a pretty good day today. Right now I'm just at home getting ready for my interview tomorrow. I'm going to be a receptionist! [God willing!] I thought I'd be a little nervous, but nope. Hopefully it won't hit me last minute. I'm very good at public speaking and bluffing, so as they say, "Fake it, till ya make it!" And that's exactly what I plan on doing.