Or not.
I wonder sometimes how people get married nowadays. There's so much to think and plan before you get married. So many discussions come up out of the blue. Insecurities. Excitement. Counseling. All of it. Some days I honestly think, how do people make it? There are times when I just want to scream and become a nun! Don't get me wrong, I love my S.O. with all of my heart, but we have the most different opinions when it comes to certain things. It was all fun when we were dating, but now that we're about to tie the knot, it all intensifies. We recuperate quickly though, and love eachother even more after the storm; however, it drains me at times. God is so good though. We both pray that He keep changing us to be better spouses. And we've come a long way. Thank God.
It feels so good to know I get to spend the rest of my life by his side. Building our careers together. Raising a family. Working in the Ministry together. I feel like I'm about to embark on the greatest adventure of my life. Somehow I know the feeling is mutual. That makes me feel even better. And these are the things I think about when we argue over shopping at Wal-Mart, Lol.
Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace. -- Ephesians 4:2-3
That is our goal.